Start the Dialogue

“For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart,” 1 Samuel 16:7.

These flowers are considered by some to be wild and by others to be weeds. Perhaps they interfere with the growth of our own plants. They may intrude on our carefully landscaped flower beds or gardens. They may sprout up into and between the blades of grass of our beautifully sodded yard. Our clean lines between grass and shrubs or flower beds may look ragged when these wild growing plants find their way into our yard.

To change our human perspective of these common plants, we should take a look with a different lens. These were created by God for a purpose. These plants provide nourishment for other creatures. They weave the ecosystem together in different climates. They are, in many cases, stronger against the harshest of weather than our carefully planted seeds and bulbs. These are to be appreciated as His creations.

This year, my parents’ yard surprisingly had a large row of bluebonnets show up for the first time. These wildflowers perfectly lined their circular driveway. My dad’s interpretation of this event was, “These had to be planted by God.” He was right.

Humans are the same way. We are created for a purpose. We must survive on our planet and live our lives as God desires. This means all humans, even those we don’t understand or those we feel don’t belong in certain situations, should be shown kindness. The verse above from 1 Samuel is one in which we find Samuel looking for the new king. Samuel looked at each of Jesse’s older sons, thinking surely it would be this one. To Samuel’s surprise, God selected the youngest son, David, not yet a man. God told Samuel that He saw David differently than Samuel did. God’s view was through His lens that looked inside the heart of David and knew his potential. We too must look at each other with a different lens.

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For as I walked around and looked carefully at your objects of worship, I even found an altar with the inscription ‘To an unknown God.’ So you are ignorant of the very thing you worship-and this is what I am going to proclaim to you now,” Acts 17:23.

This verse is another wonderful example of using a different lens. This comes from the story of Paul when he was in Athens. The people of Athens believed in false gods and had statues of false gods which they worshiped. Knowing the beliefs of the Athenians were extremely different than Paul’s belief in God, Paul did not begin talking with the Athenians by accusing them of being bad people because they did not understand God. He did not lecture or try to force his words upon them. Rather, Paul found a common ground and began to ask questions about their depiction of an unknown god. He used this as a starting point. Because he carefully began the conversation they were receptive to learn more about God.

When we are with others with whom we disagree, perhaps we are tempted to force our own beliefs upon them. People should believe the way we believe. If not, and we don’t find a common ground, we give up, shrug our shoulders, and maybe even walk away.

How can we find common ground with people who believe things we don’t? How do we look at others through a different lens? How can we appreciate all people, believers and nonbelievers, and have meaningful discussions to promote a better understanding of our world? How can we be examples of God’s love? The media is jammed packed with people who disagree, yell, and even commit violent acts toward those who are on the other side of a viewpoint, political belief, or faith. As people who believe the command given to us by Jesus to love others, don’t we need to follow Paul’s example and start a conversation?


Please click on the video below and take a look at the trailer for my new release. After viewing, please share the video with others. Let’s start a different conversation.

All Things Are Possible Through Him

Let’s Ask Different Questions

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Our world has been a different place in the past months for many reasons. We have experienced a great pandemic. We had politics, and more politics, and even more politics. People are divided by opinions and fears. Politicians and even journalists have differing options about what is happening in our world. We are reminded, as Christians, to examine the world through a Christian worldview.

A crisis is brewing at the border of our great nation. Thousands of people want to live where we in the United States are blessed to live. It is difficult to imagine a world so tragic that, no matter what the cost or risk, a person decides to leave that country for the unknown.

We find ourselves even more divided as Christians. When Moses led the people from Egypt to their promised land, he conveyed many regulations and laws about how the early Jewish people were to act. Among the many included in the Old Testament, we find the following:

Exodus 22:21 You shall not wrong a sojourner or oppress him, for you were sojourners in the land of Egypt.”

This seems pretty simple. But is it? Are we asking the right questions? Our divisions are focused on two main themes: helping the unfortunate and defending our own security. But it is more complex than this.

Mark 12:31 “The second is this”Love your neighbor as yourself.”

We know Jesus commanded us in Mark 12:31 to love our neighbors as ourselves. Does that include loving the thousands of helpless and hungry people who travel across countries just to reach our border? Yes. But it is still not that simple. Because loving your neighbor means loving those in our country, too. We have our own hungry population and helpless individuals in very impoverished areas of the country. And doesn’t loving your neighbor include protecting others from harm as much as we possibly can? Protecting individuals in our country from violence, drugs, gangs? Taking care of our children, elderly, and individuals who live their lives in a responsible way? Isn’t that also part of loving your neighbor?

Yes. You see it is a very complex problem with no easy answers. Before we can find the answers, we must be asking the right questions. Instead of digging in our heels for one side or the other, we should be talking to each other and asking thoughtful and respectful questions. Not “Should we have security?” but how. Not “Should we help?” but how. We cannot possibly help every single person, but God can. We can pray for those who are wandering for a better life. We can contribute to charitable organizations for the hungry. We can use our Christian voices to talk to people from both sides of the border.

We cannot complete this task all at once. Solving this crisis will take time and of course funds. It will require intelligent and thoughtful solutions from both sides of the border and political spectrum.

Last week, my new book, Both Sides of the Border, was released through Ambassador International Publisher. In this novel, the lives of two women, one from each side of the border, are followed. One young woman travels across Central America and Mexico to Texas. Another woman travels from Texas through Mexico. From different cultures and beliefs, we examine their own worlds. It is a story that was written in the hope of starting conversations. It is a story of testing strength and faith.

Here is a link to the official trailer of the book, Both Sides of the Border. It is now available through Amazon and other bookstores.

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Those Who Challenge Us

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People come in all varieties. Not just in appearance, but in personalities. God asks us to love and care for others. All others. It can feel impossible and of course we should never put ourselves in the position of attempting to interact with those who might put us in danger. But, for all others, loving and caring for the rest, well, it can be such a challenge. You might find yourself asking, “You mean everyone? But what about so and so? They are …” and the rest of the description you provide from past experience. They were bossy, they were overbearing, they were rude, they were… and the list goes on. It is hard to truly embrace the phrase, “love and care for everyone.”

But of all of the people you encounter, those friends closest to you may, at times, be the most difficult. It can be very challenging when a close friend or loved one says something that causes you to react with an, “Ouch, that hurt,” or, “I can’t believe he/she said that,” or, “am I really like that?” The verse below says it is easier to have an enemy bother you than a friend.

“For it is not an enemy who taunts me-then I could bear it; it is not an adversary who deals insolently with me-then I could hide from him. But it is you, a man, my equal, my companion, my familiar friend” Psalm 55:12-13

If an enemy or someone you don’t trust says something hurtful it is somehow easier to accept.  You could even choose to avoid the person. But people you see each day may serve to help us become better people. They may hold a mirror up for us to see something that needs our attention.

Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another Proverbs 27:17

When these comments come our way, even if they feel like daggers to our spirit, we should step back and take a look. Is there something I can learn here? Maybe what I said came out the wrong way or perhaps I did not clearly say what I meant to convey. We should therefore be thankful that we have people in our lives to sharpen us, like iron sharpens iron. They are blessings, too.

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Hope and Worry

It is rare to have a conversation with a friend or loved one and not hear the word “hope.” It is a frequent word in our vocabulary because it indicates anticipation, optimism, expectation, and even courage to face what might happen in the future. Even in our lowest times, we remain hopeful.

In order to believe things we hope for will happen, we must have faith. We must also have trust. We are hopeful events in our future will happen, we have faith they will happen, and we trust our faith. 

In Christianity, we believe that once we have accepted Christ as our Savior, we will have eternal life. This is what the Apostle Paul wrote in one of his letters to the new believers in Rome.

For in this hope we were saved. Now hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, we wait for it with patience Romans 8:24-25

The Apostle Paul conveyed much of the Christian doctrine in the letters he wrote to believers in the newly established churches. In this part of the letter, he is explaining what we know now as salvation in God’s kingdom. We know that this will happen. We hope and wait for the day when we fully know eternal life in heaven. But we cannot see this yet. We know it awaits us and we must be patient.

            As the verse above reminds us, we hope for what we do not yet know. One problem with our earthly hope is that it increases the likelihood we will have worry. We hope something will occur, we wonder when it will happen, we anticipate and hope it happens soon, and when it doesn’t, we worry. Worry can lead to anxiety. This type of hope/worry/anxiety is not helpful to you. But this type of anxiety is linked to anticipation and is part of our human nature. Rather than have these thoughts running around in your mind night and day, you can turn the hope for earthly things into prayer. Pray, then rely on God to hear your prayers. Your prayers will be answered at the right time. Pray and feel the peace that only faith can provide.

Now faith is the assurance of thing hoped for, the conviction of things not seen Hebrews 11:1

And now, O Lord, for what do I wait? My hope is in you Psalm 39:7

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Rejoicing in the Day!

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This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it Psalm 118:24

The fact that you are reading the verse above is a blessing.  You have been blessed with another day! How the day will turn out only God knows. But we know one thing for certain: God, as the creator and giver of all gifts, has provided another day.

Perhaps you are facing a day weighed down and overly scheduled with things you don’t want to do. Within that schedule, you have the option of going about the day with a joyful spirit or being disgruntled about the demands on your time. Carefully planned schedules can be disrupted by both unexpected pleasant or unpleasant events. You keep a positive outlook and remind yourself today is a gift and we are to rejoice in this gift.

Later tonight, you will put your weary body to bed and reflect on the outcome. You may realize it turned out differently.. Keeping the verse above in mind, you decided to celebrate the day regardless of the interruptions, unpleasant events, or the tasks you needed to complete. 

Our lives and activities have been caught off guard in the past months. At times, the days came one after another with little distinction. You may have looked at the same four walls too many days in a row or too many hours in a day. It was difficult to be hopeful and rejoice about anything. One morning, maybe this morning, you looked at your family, your circumstances, and thanked God for your many blessings. Perhaps it was at that time you realized joy still exists in the simple things God provides like sunshine, talking with family and friends,, or going for long walks. Sunrises, sunsets, children laughing, faithful dogs at our side, a shared meal, are pleasures we enjoy in our lives. These simple things are the ways God continues to lift our spirits. It has been a time for reflection and reading Scripture. A time of contacting love ones and friends through technology or brief socially distanced visits. 

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But let all who take refuge in you rejoice; let them ever sing for joy, and spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may exult in you Psalm 5:11

When we trust our faith, God eases our worries and fears and we are again able to rejoice. We know that God will protect us and the events of our day are part of a larger plan only God knows and understands.  Mornings, facing each new day, can be a time to ask for help in the twenty-four-hour journey. As the Scripture says above, “let all who take refuge in you rejoice.” Take refuge in Him. Ask for calmness. Ask for peace. Ask for strength. God will listen.