Feeling “Wilty”


The Lord is my strength and my song, and he has become my salvation; this is my God, and I will praise him, my father’s God, and I will exalt him Exodus 15:2

No, “wilty” is not a real word. But I am going to use it anyway.

Peeking through my blinds I noticed that my pink impatiens that had been “wilty” a short time ago were now standing up with happy flowers. Why? It is simple. The flowers had several days of too much rain followed by several days of too much heat. Those poor little flowers had been through too many ups and downs. But once those roller coaster weather days tapered off, just the right amount of water brought out the joyful colorful flowers.

Our faith and our own happiness can be like the impatiens in my backyard. We experience too many days of tests, trials, and stress. Our stamina and our faith weaken. We are torn. We may become impatient in our faith, like the flowers, needing immediate care. On these days, I know all I need to do is have some quiet time with God. I need exactly the right amount of water.

“WILTY” in today’s texting language stands for “Would I lie to you?” and, in this blog post, I am telling you the truth. I would not lie to you. A few moments of time alone with God, a passage or two from the Bible, a quiet prayer, and you can be on your way with renewed strength. You feel recharged and energized.

Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand Isaiah 41:10

“But wait!” You may protest, “I need more than that. I am too overwhelmed and drained. I need more than a few moments to refresh my spirit and my energy.” And after many days of stress, this is true. Being a caretaker for a loved one or raising young children are examples. These prolonged periods of high stress call for more than a few moments. These high stress times mean you may need to reach out to others.

For the gifts and the calling of God are irrevocableRomans 11:29

Call on others around you. Other family members, neighbors, friends from church, can provide respite and rest when needed. A brief time spent in fellowship with others can provide remarkable energy. Remember, for the people giving support to you, helping you is their gift to you, their service to God. Do not refuse these opportunities when people offer assistance. Christians live by the example set for us by Jesus, to serve others. Thoughtful concerned others want to help you when you are in need. And, do not feel guilty about taking time for yourself. When you become “wilty”, regaining your strength can make you a better caretaker. Spiritual rejuvenation is valuable. Your loved ones, and you, will benefit.

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Handling the Storm


And as they sailed, he fell asleep. And a squall came down on the lake, and the boat was being swamped, and they were in great danger. The disciples went and woke him saying, “Master, Master, we are going to drown!” He got up and rebuked the wind and the raging waves, and the storm subsided and all was calm. “Where is your faith?” he asked his disciples Luke 8:23-25

In our lives, there will be storms. The storms can happen at work, at home, with friends or family. Storms can be painful and frightening. People may break our hearts, jobs can disappoint us, and life can take an unexpected turn. At times, we may feel helpless and not know what to do or where to turn. We may mull over the right words for hours to figure out what to say in a particular situation. We may second guess our actions wondering if acting on our feelings will make a situation worse. In all of this turmoil, we may panic or react too quickly and later regret our actions or words.

When the disciples experienced a dangerous storm while they were out on the water, they panicked. They did not know what to do. In their panic, they awakened Jesus who quickly put the winds and waves to rest. He knew all the disciples needed to do was ask Him for help.

As we read this story, it sounds as if Jesus questioned the disciples’ behavior. Was he upset that they had awakened him? Or was He upset because they panicked? The disciples were afraid and did not trust that He could easily deal with whatever storm came along and put it to rest.

For us, the message of these passages instructs us to go to God first. When things are not going well, no matter what the circumstance, read the Scripture and have conversations with God. Praying and turning to God’s word can provide us with the guidance for actions and help to calm the storm. By trusting in God, the storm will end and leave peacefulness in the place of the winds and the waves.

Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path Psalm 119:105

The verse above lets us know that the most important guidance we can find is in the Word of God. The Scripture is our GPS. It can point the way when we are faced with the storms of life. And once we are through the storm, we can appreciate the calm and thank God for His guidance along the way.  Then, we can celebrate the calm waters.

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Moving Forward

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Sometimes people don’t realize when God speaks. We may think our lives are falling into place because of coincidences. We just happen to be in the right place at the right time. We are “lucky.” Good things just happen to us by accident.

For people of faith, it is different. Sometimes we beg for direction or a “sign” that we are on the right path. Are we taking the right road? We just want to know. If only we would be given a sign.

We grow impatient in the waiting, not understanding that the waiting is required. During the waiting, we may be tested. We can drop lower and lower in despair, thinking our time will never arrive. I know. I have been there, too.

 The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul who seeks him Lamentations 3:25

The verse above was written by Jerimiah as he cried for the fallen city of Jerusalem. His sorrow was real. He knew the people had fallen away from God and that Jerusalem had suffered because of it. He knew that he would wait for direction from God. He would listen. He would watch for God to show him the way.

For still the vision awaits its appointed time; it hastens to the end-it will not lie. If it seems slow, wait for it; it will surely come; it will not delay Habakkuk 2:3.

In this prophetic verse written by Habakkuk, he writes that he knows he will be given a sign. He knew things would change according to God’s timing. This is the key for our impatience, too. When we are waiting, to know that our time will come is a measure of our faith.

My signs come in everyday experiences. Had I not been aware, I might have missed them. But I believed the time would come, when God was ready. When He was ready, I received a note from a friend that I would hear some amazing news and would move forward with my work. That very day, in the very next email I opened, I received a contract offer for my most recent book.

When I moved to a new town, I received a sign that new friends in Christ would become a part of our lives when a couple enthusiastically walked into a book signing and introduced themselves. They said they felt called to come and meet us when they read the notice in the local paper. We have been close friends since that day.

Several days ago, I wrote a list of upcoming blog topics. The topic of this very blog, written days ago, was the title of my pastor’s service today. Are these coincidences? Or are they messages from God to me that I am to keep working for His church? The answer depends on your faith.

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Count It All Joy

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Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds James 1:2

These last months have seen heartbreak, struggle, physical pain, surgery, and the meticulous chores that accompany moving into a new home. At times, feeling overwhelmed, it was all I could do to read daily devotionals. Maybe you have had days like this. Many days, I played catchup with laundry, grocery shopping, household chores, and Bible reading. The schedule was beyond full.

During these months, my writing turned to longer works. These longer works consumed my days and nights. Since Christmas, I completed two books. One is under contract with a publisher and another has been submitted. Those works will be posted in detail later when publication is near.

Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights with whom there is no variation or shadow due to change James 1:17

So now, with a small sense of things being back to “normal”, the blog posting will continue. I am thankful and blessed to be able to write. God gives us all gifts and these are to be used to help others along our way. It may be that you have been given the gift of unbelievable patience, compassion, and strength and share your home with foster children. It may be that you have been given the gift of teaching and shaping young minds to achieve in school. Maybe you are a parent or teacher assisting children to become Christians and productive citizens. You may find you are incredibly good at raising crops or cattle. Maybe your gift is the understanding, skill, and desire to risk your life each day as a first responder or soldier. Perhaps you are a talented builder, banker, doctor, or any other profession in which you can work to mentor others. God, in His wisdom, knows it takes us all to support each other.

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But Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible” Matthew 19:26

Jesus said these words to his disciples who doubted that sinful men could be saved. As Christians, we have heard and read about miracles that happened in the Bible. It is easy to become lazy and surmise that miracles don’t happen in our life time. But for Christians, we can open our eyes daily to find miracles. As Christians, we live in the Kingdom of God. Thinking about our tiny planet suspended in just the right place in our solar system, held precisely by gravity, with just the perfect mix of temperatures, gases, and elements for human survival did not happen by chance. We know it didn’t. The existence of humans and other life forms on this planet is mere child’s play for God. Nothing to it.

Water droplets that turn to beautiful snowflakes, seeds emerging from frozen ground, waves echoing their sighs as they come and go on the shore, and galaxies of stars we see each night, remind us of the power of God. We can also open our eyes to see sunrises, the birth of our children and grandchildren, love between spouses that lasts a lifetime, and we know we are witnessing miracles. But, like the disciples, we still have doubts and insecurities about our faith. We pray for signs. We pray for God to work in our lives.

So Jesus said to him, “Unless you see signs and wonders you will not believe” John 4:48

This week, I witnessed a miracle and the true power of prayer. My mother laid with her eyes closed in her hospital bed for four days with “no response”. On the fourth day, the family called on all prayer warriors. Congregations scattered across the state, Bible study groups, friends, relatives, and my Dad’s Marine Corps buddies (more than 500 responded), all asked for God to leave her with us on earth. We prayed that she would pull through. We prayed for strength. We prayed for God’s will to be done, whatever that might be, and that she would feel no pain.

On the fifth day, we entered the hospital room to find Mom not only awake but sitting up! Her speech was intact and, we soon found out, so was her humor! But her first remarks to us were: “A great hand woke me up. I know that I am only here because of prayer; that is all it could be.”

For nothing will be impossible with God Luke 1:37

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I am thankful she is here and thankful for the miracle of prayer. She is still fighting to get stronger and we pray she will be released from the hospital in a few days. And after all of the tears of pain, heartbreak, and joy this week, I cannot help but wonder if the miracle happened, not only to heal Mom, but also so we could witness God’s work and once again have our own faith strengthened.

And whatever you ask for in prayer, you will receive if you have faith Matthew 21:22

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